I have a very simple theory when it comes to cheating: Those who do, haven’t grown up yet, period. Cheating is a distinguishing line between the men and boys and the women and girls — one group understands, accepts, and takes responsibility, the other doesn’t.
This list of reasons of why I will always be faithful to my husband comes from my heart to his.
1. My wedding vows actually mean something to me. “Do you, L, take B, to be your lawfully wedded husband, to have and behold from this day forward, for better or for worse, for richer or for poorer, in sickness and in health, forsaking all others, as long as you both shall live?” To which I replied, “I do.”
2. He is my best friend. I would rather hang out with him than anyone else I know. Taking a few moments to talk over coffee or a glass of wine are some of the moments I cherish the most.
3. I still get excited when I get to see him for the first time of the day. He often wakes up very early and heads to work before I am even awake. Sometimes it can be as late as 8:00 p.m. before we see each for the first time. My stomach still tingles with excitement when I know I’m only a few minutes from seeing him.
4. He tells me he loves several times throughout the day. A simple “I love you,” text during the day and the last thing I hear at night as I prepare to drift off to sleep is my husband loves me.
5. I respect him. Considering all he done for me and our families, I can’t imagine doing anything that would disrespect that commitment. I can’t imagine doing anything that would disrespect him.
6. I miss him when we are apart for a few days (or his work schedule doesn’t allow us to spend time together). Time away from each other is healthy and beneficial; the reunion is ever sweeter.
7. Sometimes I actually think he’s funny. ツ I appreciate his sarcastic wit and his [occasionally] well-timed comebacks. No courtesy laughs here.
8. He still likes to hold hands when we are walking. Holding hands while we walk makes something ordinary much more special.
9. Just being with him is special. In the evening, when the day’s responsibilities are behind us, we grab a few moments to just be with each other as we chat (and sometimes) cuddle while watching something mindless on television. A few precious minutes for sure.
10. I can’t imagine life without him. A life worth living is a life worth sharing. Sharing my life with my husband provides so much joy. My heart will always remain faithful to his because it is constantly being filled with love. I believe it will always be this way – no matter what.
Number 11? Oh yeah … the sex. He is the kind of lover who pleases me in ways I never even imagined before and puts my pleasure before his own. Nuff said.
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Wow, I want to be in love like this…